Ellipsis Advisor

What do you stand for?

Thomas Jefferson wrote this recommendation of Meriwether Lewis on his qualifications for what was to become the Lewis & Clark expedition: “Of courage undaunted, possessing a firmness and perseverance of purpose which nothing but impossibilities could divert from it’s direction, careful as a father of those committed to his charge, yet steady in the maintenance

Standing up for what we believe is a little like streaking

Courage has many faces. I’m speaking about personal courage, staring honesty in the face and the boldness to stand up for what we believe. We have numerous opportunities each day to act on those moments; to step up and really be honest and affirmative for what we believe. Often we stay silent, leave it for

High Maintenance? Your Days Might Be Numbered!

“He complains a lot.” “He needs so much of my attention.” “She creates more problems/frustrations than she solves.” Sound familiar? We hire our team members as resources to help us achieve our objectives. When a team member tips that scale to where they create more work and frustration than they solve, then we have to

Pay To Resole My Shoes!

Let sales people do what they do best – sell. My good friend Bob Sappio started at APL around the same time I did. We both started straight out of college. There are many stories I could tell about the seasoned executive he is … Bob started out in sales and there is a legendary

Pay Attention To The Middle of The Bell Curve

I was working with a client, a new CEO, about the dynamics of influencing his Board of Directors , whom he, as of yet, did not know well. We discussed his ability to persuade his Board on issues important to him. I drew a bell curve with the typical vertical lines intersecting the Bell at

The Flower Vendor

This story is an excerpt from my book, Our Stories Matter. (Sunflower illustration by Isabella Hutley) There are times when our filters, our preconceptions get in the way, and by doing so we miss the opportunity to see life in others, to see the world from a broader perspective. As we look to become more

You Don’t Know What You Don’t Know

I was in New York with a colleague, Gregory Hill. We were having several cups of coffee, discussing the importance of strong foundations in corporations. Organizations go through change – growth, market dynamics, Customer demands, stakeholder pressures. An organization’s ability, and readiness, to face that change, and to create real sustainability is paramount. All too

Commit – You Won’t Forsake Options Down The Road!

If I Commit, I lock myself into a direction. I need to keep my options open. Once I dive in, there is no way out. Sound familiar? Every time I visit my friend Edward in the English countryside, I come back relaxed, refreshed. Something about long walks and the fresh air… This weekend I was

5 Must-Dos, if you want to Persuade

“Ninety percent of selling is conviction, and 10 per cent is persuasion.” Shiv Khera Great Quote. However, as leaders, we usually end up at that crossroads where we have that one opportunity to close the deal, to persuade – the meeting with our boss, the presentation to the Board of Directors, or the pitch to

When the core is shaky

My client was exploring several opportunities to expand his business – partnerships, acquisitions, product expansions.  Lots of opportunities, and all clearly in his sandbox. These opportunities would expand his core business in line with the clear strategic objectives he had set for his company’s growth. As he explored these opportunities, as he discussed them with