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Balancing the Interview

I am a big fan of behavioral interviewing (“Tell me about a time when you…”).  This interviewing style allows the interviewer to take actual experiences and behaviors of the candidate and assess how those fit into the culture and requirements of their company. It takes away much of the salesmanship of candidates and focuses on

Guest Blog Seth Godin

Choose your customers first It seems obvious, doesn’t it? Each cohort of customers has a particular worldview, a set of problems, a small possible set of solutions available. Each cohort has a price they’re willing to pay, a story they’re willing to hear, a period of time they’re willing to invest. And yet… And yet

Paying it Forward

I was at the Starbucks drive-through the other day and as I was about to pay, the cashier said “The person in front of you paid for you. They are paying it forward”. Of course we passed the good fortune on to the car behind us (we were the 14th car to do so) and

Questions I have been asked

Should “high potential” employees know of their status? Definitely. If you are having performance management discussions with your employees, they should know exactly how you feel about their performance and their potential for advancement. And they should know what they need to do to meet your expectations and their objectives. Having said that, there is

Guest Blog Wally Bock

In over your head   Subscribe to the Three Star Leadership Blog Working Supervisor’s Support KitA collection of tools and information that will help you do a better job as a boss.  Contact Wally  about coaching, consulting, or speaking to your group. Here’s the situation. You’ve worked for your company for years but no one ever tapped

Character Strengths

I’ve been reading up on the work of Christopher Peterson and Martin Seligman in their bookCharacter Strengths and Virtues: A Handbook and Classification.   They work in the field of  positive psychology,  “ the scientific study of the strengths and virtues that enable individuals and communities to thrive, according to the Positive Psychology Center at the University of

Good bad and the ugly

Read a good quote: “Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people” Got me thinking: Bad leaders don’t lead, don’t manage; they intimidate, react, explain But, Good leaders manage events, deliver performance, drive for results manage  today And great leaders do all that and: They  inspire, motivate, create vision, manage the

ignorance, indecisiveness and humility

I was asked the other day if I thought it was ok for a leader to say that they don’t know. Good leaders build on a foundation of trust and transparency. When you trust your team, when they trust you, then dialogue becomes unthreatening. Tough topics can be broached with openness, without fear or retribution

Knowing what makes you happy

I often talk with my coaching clients about knowing what makes you happy and pursuing that. Doing more of that. It seems like a simple thing, but it is really about self-awareness. A lot of things make us happy, and spending just a little more time focusing on that can make a world of difference

spending time with friends

I was at a nice dinner after work. My friend Essa had us talk about what we enjoy doing outside of work…we all went around the table and it was a great conversation. What we talked most about, a common theme was the joy, value, and priority  of relationships and friendships. Sitting around the table,